The Mistakes You Must not Correct
Believe it or not, some mistakes are better left uncorrected. This is one mistake many have failed to notice and is tearing their relationships and marriages apart
We are meant to offend each other. Often, those who offend us the most are those we love. But we must learn to ignore when some of these offences come very hard on us. If not, we'd have to do it at the expense of our marriages and relationships
Some men have gradually destroyed their wife's confidence and consequently their marriage by ensuring they complain every time their wife makes a mistake. Before you know it, she's become frustrated and very uncomfortable around her husband
When a woman breaks a plate or spills milk on the dining table, she already knows she's done something wrong, you don't have to always add your voice to it every time. Instead, say sorry or simply ignore because it could have been you as well. Some men even blame their wives for falling sick.
It's that bad when you always come up with this attitude of a perfectionist, your partner begins to feel you see him or her as being foolish or inferior while you make yourself look innocent and perfect. Whereas, when she does something commendable, you hardly talk about it
If you focus more on the positives in your partner, you'd end up bringing out the best in him/her. But if you find it comfortable, condemning and criticising his/her every action, you'd end up making a monster of him/her
Wife, your husband messed up, he lost his job due to carelessness or misplaced his phone. He's already depressed. You don't have to rebuke him and make him feel like the whole world is collapsing on his head. What he needs at such times is a shoulder to cry on, not a slap in the face
The issue with most of what we call correction is that they come at a very wrong time. You must be patient enough to swallow some hard pills and wait till the atmosphere is right to make corrections.
Many are so impatient
they correct their partners in public or in the presence of the kids.
This is why many complain that their spouse have problems with
everything they do including the way they walk or even eatNote that there are certain attitudes that are very difficult to correct. For example, a wife who snores or a man who gambles might be difficult to change. Such people need help and their partners must not just blame them at all times but must be willing to help
If you have an attitude your partner is uncomfortable with, don't let it continue as such could be very provoking and demoralizing. You'd be putting your marriage at risk. To make ourselves happy, we must make our partners very happy and comfortable. It's a price worth paying
God bless you